Monday, June 3, 2013

Start Celebrating Yourself Today


We can spend so much time managing our careers, our money and our relationships that we don’t always stop to recognize our successes. We're too busy moving on to the next meeting, project or item on our to-do list. Or we set the bar so high we won't hit it for awhile, if at all.
So today, let's celebrate.
Let's forget about outcomes. It's not about whether you got the promotion, the salary bump you asked for or the new client. Right now, it's the fact that you asked, you researched, you presented.
For just a few seconds, focus less on what's important to your boss, your company and your colleagues and zero in on what was progress for you. Did you wake up early enough so that your morning wasn't rushed? Awesome. Did you bring your lunch this week and save the money to go toward a new car? Nice work. Did you rely less on your notes during a presentation? Way to go.
I bet, with a little practice, you'll even be able to find things to celebrate in less than ideal circumstances. Like Rebecca, who started a discussion in Connect: Professional Women's Networknoting that she was laid off after 20 years in marketing and wanted to reinvent herself. Nearly 2,000 people commented with tips and support for handling the transition. Being laid off is rough, but I'm celebrating Rebecca being vulnerable enough to ask for advice and all the who people responded with encouragement and job leads.
Now it's your turn. What can you celebrate right now?

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